Good Morning, Thanks so much for the reply. Way too funny! actually, I was
just the opposite…I thought the music was great and the information was
painful! 🙂 Chuck… i
I listened to the whole thing, it was a good excercise in focusing on the
words and ignoring the background! Keep up the good work, marriage is
Godly! (30 yr. vet here)
Good Morning. Thanks for your great comment and for sharing about your
successful marriage. You are so very right. It is indeed never to late to
save your marriage. Great job and keep up the awesome work! Blessings, Chuck
Great video. I had you as an instructor at Liberty a few years ago in an
intensive and learned so much from you. This is a great outline for me to
use personally and with my clients.
Good Evening Jon. Thanks for watching and thanks also for the feedback.
Glad it was helpful for you. Let me know if it helps your clients as well.
Blessings to you and yours. Chuck
Good Afternoon. I’m so very sorry for the pain that you are in. It’s not
okay for me to engage in anything, even if I believe it to be okay, if it
causes pain to my wife. My reply needs to be, “Honey, I think you are so
very wrong about this…nevertheless, you are so very important to me and
our relationship is so very important to me that I will for your sake agree
to give up whatever it is that causes you pain. You are more important to
me than anything.” Hope that helps. Chuck
Thanks chuck! It really helps. I dont really like seeing my husband
browsing naked photos in front of me as i found it very disrespectful. And
he does that when he knows im lined up for the doctor because of my kidney
pain. I just want to be alone now and im hating him so much.
I know i may be very unreasonable that it pisses me off when he does that.
But i really dont understand why a man would do that in front of her wife
when he knows im unwell and its not ok for me.
Hi Again. I hear your intense anger and it doesn’t seem unreasonable to me
that you are angry with him for his hurting you in such an intimate way. I
hope that you can get with someone to help you through this and get to a
place in your marriage that is satisfying to both of you. If you cannot get
counseling, I would encourage you to visit my website and maybe choose some
books to help you to know how to navigate these difficulties. I listed
authors that have been helpful to me…Chuck
This stuff does work. My wife and I are starting a marriage class in our
church and this will be a great tool. Thanks for this video, it helps me
put into word thing that I know but have a hard time explaining.
Good Morning George! Yes, it does work, and it works well. I’m so very
excited about what you and your wife are doing at your church. I’m sure
that you all will help more people than you can ever imagine. I’m glad that
the video gives you a reproducible format that you can duplicate with
others. Please let me know how things are going with the class. Thanks
again! Blessings, Chuck
I was fighting with my spouse every day and it was affecting my children.
my ex-friend asked me to use this “HubbyTrack” mobile app which helps to
record and report all behaviours of the spouse which can be discussed and
this brought in lots of factual discussions and avoided all imaginery
fights!
What if one of the partners is constantly “turning” to the other one and
the other one never does.. won’t that first partner feel that he or she is
forever “giving in” to the other one?
This is by far the best video I have seen about relationship repair. My bf
and I just had a huge fight over the holidays which quickly escalated to
him moving out. Since then I have been researching information and sharing
it with him. Since then we have talked and worked out a plan. Thank you for
adding to my tool belt by making this video available to those who can’t
afford traditional counseling. 
My husband and I are both 24 years old and have been married for a year.
Our marriage is very damaged and by damaged I mean trust issues sex issues
communicating difficulties and with every struggle led to us mainly my
husband changing every little thing about him. Now we are sleeping in
separate rooms and even though we want to fix things and get things back we
don’t know how and we are just damaged. Help!!!
Thank you for replying. We’ve changed weepy thing about ourselves to the
point where we don’t know who we are. We have no clue how to start
repairing this and it very sad :(. Every time we go through a spell where
we fight or don’t talk for a few days we sit down and write down what we
need to change or do to make things better and sure they work for a little
bit but then it goes back to before. What can we do what tips can we try to
make this repeated cycle end?
Very helpful, thank you very much Chuck for making this video
Hi Chase, Thanks so much for letting me know. So glad that it was helpful.
Blessings on your journey and keep me posted if you would like. Chuck…
I like the info, the music hurts badly
Good Morning, Thanks so much for the reply. Way too funny! actually, I was
just the opposite…I thought the music was great and the information was
painful! 🙂 Chuck… i
Funeralesque
So what you’re saying is, that you don’t like it…you have great
humor…Chuck
I listened to the whole thing, it was a good excercise in focusing on the
words and ignoring the background! Keep up the good work, marriage is
Godly! (30 yr. vet here)
🙂
good guy ..
Good Morning. Thanks for your great comment and for sharing about your
successful marriage. You are so very right. It is indeed never to late to
save your marriage. Great job and keep up the awesome work! Blessings, Chuck
Great video. I had you as an instructor at Liberty a few years ago in an
intensive and learned so much from you. This is a great outline for me to
use personally and with my clients.
Good Evening Jon. Thanks for watching and thanks also for the feedback.
Glad it was helpful for you. Let me know if it helps your clients as well.
Blessings to you and yours. Chuck
Hi chuck, is it ok for husband to look on a naked photo in a magazine
intentionally beside me in a joking manner when he knows im in awful pain?
Good Afternoon. I’m so very sorry for the pain that you are in. It’s not
okay for me to engage in anything, even if I believe it to be okay, if it
causes pain to my wife. My reply needs to be, “Honey, I think you are so
very wrong about this…nevertheless, you are so very important to me and
our relationship is so very important to me that I will for your sake agree
to give up whatever it is that causes you pain. You are more important to
me than anything.” Hope that helps. Chuck
Thanks chuck! It really helps. I dont really like seeing my husband
browsing naked photos in front of me as i found it very disrespectful. And
he does that when he knows im lined up for the doctor because of my kidney
pain. I just want to be alone now and im hating him so much.
I know i may be very unreasonable that it pisses me off when he does that.
But i really dont understand why a man would do that in front of her wife
when he knows im unwell and its not ok for me.
Hi Again. I hear your intense anger and it doesn’t seem unreasonable to me
that you are angry with him for his hurting you in such an intimate way. I
hope that you can get with someone to help you through this and get to a
place in your marriage that is satisfying to both of you. If you cannot get
counseling, I would encourage you to visit my website and maybe choose some
books to help you to know how to navigate these difficulties. I listed
authors that have been helpful to me…Chuck
This stuff does work. My wife and I are starting a marriage class in our
church and this will be a great tool. Thanks for this video, it helps me
put into word thing that I know but have a hard time explaining.
Good Morning George! Yes, it does work, and it works well. I’m so very
excited about what you and your wife are doing at your church. I’m sure
that you all will help more people than you can ever imagine. I’m glad that
the video gives you a reproducible format that you can duplicate with
others. Please let me know how things are going with the class. Thanks
again! Blessings, Chuck
Thanks a lot for this wondeful video!
I was fighting with my spouse every day and it was affecting my children.
my ex-friend asked me to use this “HubbyTrack” mobile app which helps to
record and report all behaviours of the spouse which can be discussed and
this brought in lots of factual discussions and avoided all imaginery
fights!
I am lot more happy now!
What if one of the partners is constantly “turning” to the other one and
the other one never does.. won’t that first partner feel that he or she is
forever “giving in” to the other one?
This is by far the best video I have seen about relationship repair. My bf
and I just had a huge fight over the holidays which quickly escalated to
him moving out. Since then I have been researching information and sharing
it with him. Since then we have talked and worked out a plan. Thank you for
adding to my tool belt by making this video available to those who can’t
afford traditional counseling. 
My husband and I are both 24 years old and have been married for a year.
Our marriage is very damaged and by damaged I mean trust issues sex issues
communicating difficulties and with every struggle led to us mainly my
husband changing every little thing about him. Now we are sleeping in
separate rooms and even though we want to fix things and get things back we
don’t know how and we are just damaged. Help!!!
Thank you for replying. We’ve changed weepy thing about ourselves to the
point where we don’t know who we are. We have no clue how to start
repairing this and it very sad :(. Every time we go through a spell where
we fight or don’t talk for a few days we sit down and write down what we
need to change or do to make things better and sure they work for a little
bit but then it goes back to before. What can we do what tips can we try to
make this repeated cycle end?
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